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The Sneaky Reason You Never Feel “Good Enough” After You Improve
You did the thing and your brain still moved the bar? That’s standard/hedonic adaptation. Name it, lock in the win, and let your progress actually count.
You Don’t Have to Believe Every Thought to Act on Your Values
Thoughts will stay noisy. ACT-style noticing, naming, and choosing lets you move toward what matters anyway — even with perfectionism in the room.
Goals Your Nervous System Will Actually Keep
If your goals keep stressing you out, they’re probably too big for your body right now. Make them smaller, anchored, and allowed to count — so you can repeat them.
Self-Compassion Isn’t Lazy — It’s How You Stay in the Game
Self-criticism creates shutdown, not motivation. Using Dr Kristin Neff’s 3-part framework, here’s how to respond kindly and still move forward.
3 Nervous-System-Friendly Ways to Keep Showing Up (When Your Perfectionism Flares Again)
Your mind may be ready, but your body still says “not yet.” Here are 3 bottom-up practices to lower the stakes and keep moving without needing it to be perfect.
The Two Kinds of Perfectionism (and Why One Silences You)
Not all perfectionism is bad. Here’s the difference between growth-supportive and self-silencing perfectionism — and how to switch back to the helpful kind.
Is It Really Failing… or Is Your Brain Just Being Dramatic?
A gentle guide to 3 common cognitive distortions — all-or-nothing thinking, mental filters, and disqualifying the positive — and how they keep perfectionism and low motivation alive.
The Real Reason Your Self-Care Isn’t Sticking (And What to Do Instead)
You don’t need more productivity hacks. You need self-care that meets you where you are. Here’s why your rituals might not be sticking—and what actually helps.
Your Wellness Practice Isn’t Lazy—It’s Seasonal
It’s easy to believe that if your wellness practice doesn’t look the same every week, you’re somehow doing it wrong. But healing isn’t a straight line—and your self-care isn’t lazy, it’s seasonal. Some weeks are full of journaling, movement, and momentum. Others are quiet, slow, or still. This blog invites you to reframe those quieter moments not as falling off track, but as part of the natural rhythm of being human. Let’s dismantle the guilt and honour the ebb and flow.
Letting Go of Perfection: Embracing Imperfection in Daily Life
We spend so much energy trying to get everything just right — chasing the perfect job, the perfect body, the perfect routine. But the truth is, perfection isn’t where real happiness lives. In this blog, we explore how letting go of perfectionism can create space for more joy, resilience, and real self-acceptance. Because life isn’t meant to be flawless — it’s meant to be fully lived.