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One Small Action Before January
December doesn’t have to be a sprint or a full reset. Choose one nervous-system-safe action, finish it, and walk into January with evidence — not pressure.
Self-Compassion Isn’t Lazy — It’s How You Stay in the Game
Self-criticism creates shutdown, not motivation. Using Dr Kristin Neff’s 3-part framework, here’s how to respond kindly and still move forward.
3 Nervous-System-Friendly Ways to Keep Showing Up (When Your Perfectionism Flares Again)
Your mind may be ready, but your body still says “not yet.” Here are 3 bottom-up practices to lower the stakes and keep moving without needing it to be perfect.
The Two Kinds of Perfectionism (and Why One Silences You)
Not all perfectionism is bad. Here’s the difference between growth-supportive and self-silencing perfectionism — and how to switch back to the helpful kind.